on how the conversation - even the entire relationship - develops." width="900" height="134" /> #1) The rule is either ‘Dr.‘ before, or the post-nominal abbreviation for their degree after. Never both at the same time.
#2) See the post below on joint forms of address — addressing a physician and spouse.
Robert Hickey author of “Honor & Respect”
These forms work for anyone with a doctorate as well as physicians such as dentist, chiropractor, military doctor, veterinarian, optometrist, osteopath or podiatrist.
Avoid: Dr. John and Ms. Kathleen Dexter
Avoid: Dr. Allyson and Mr. William Carley
#1) Same Surname
—- Envelope & Salutation:
——– Dr. and Mrs. John Dexter
——– (Address)
——– —- Dear Dr. and Mrs. Dexter,
——– Dr. John Dexter and Ms. Kathleen Dexter
——– (Address)
——– —- Dear Dr. and Ms. Dexter
——– Dr. Allyson Carley and Mr. William Carley
——– (Address)
——– —- Dear Dr. Carley and Mr. Carley
#2) Different Surnames
—- Envelope & Salutation:
——– Dr. Roger Fry and Ms. Jane Taylor
——– (Address)
——– —- Dear Dr. Fry and Ms. Taylor,
——– Dr. Lucy Khin and Mr. David Patel
——– (Address)
——– —- Dear Dr. Khin and Mr. Patel
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My friend is a retired physician who no longer practices. His still Dr. (Name)? Does he still put MD after his name?
—————————— — Linda Whedbee
Dear Ms. Whedbee:
Physicians are addressed as Dr. … forever … in practice and when retired.
(Full Name), M.D. is the official form of his name. He used that when practicing and including his degree made his qualifications to offer a professional service clear. He might still use (Full Name), M.D. in a academic setting where everyone is using their academic post-nominals.
Dr. William Smith is the social form of his name. Now that he’s retired it’s the version to use most often.
—- Envelope: How to Address a Medical Doctor
——– Dr. William Smith
——– (Address)
—- Converation or salutation:
——– Dr. Smith
— Robert Hickey How to Address a Medical Doctor
Robert Hickey author of “Honor & Respect”
You can use these forms of address for any mode of communication: addressing a letter, invitation, card or Email. (If there are differences between the official and social forms of address, I will have mentioned the different forms.) The form noted in the salutation is the same form you say when you say their name in conversation or when you greet them.
___ What I don’t cover on this site are many things I do cover in my book: all the rules of forms of address, about names, international titles, precedence, complimentary closes, details on invitations, place cards, all sorts of introductions , etc. I hope you’ll get a copy of the book if you’d like the further detail.
—- #1) At right on desktops , at the bottom of every page on tablets and phones , is a list of all the offices, officials & topics covered on the site.
—- #2) If you don’t see the official you seek included or your question answered send me an e-mail. I am pretty fast at sending a reply: usually the next day or so (unless I am traveling.) Note: I don’t have mailing or Email addresses for any of the officials and I don’t keep track of offices that exist only in history books.
—- #3) If I think your question is of interest to others, Sometimes I post the question – but always change all the specifics.
